I am grateful for therapy, because some of the rejection I recieve in my life is a response to my behavior. I got to discuss my roommate Jennifer with my therapist, and one thing I have learned about myself is I come on way to strong!
I see myself doing that with my new roommate Raina already. I am offering to help too much, it comes from the right place, but I am too much in her business. If she wants my help she will ask for it.
So I am going to back of and leave her be. It's what I prefer to do anyway. It's like I feel obliged to be all in her face, I don't want to do it, and she doesn't want it either. Weird. You learn new things all the time.